I think I may have bit off more than I can chew. I started school last year (the first thing I've done for ME, not for the family) after making sacrifices in the last 12 years for difficult child (and family). Well, husband and I seem to cycle in our marriage and we've hit a low spot. Then difficult child has her suspension/possible assault charges. we're under quite a bit of stress and I'm sure that both kids feel it. It doesn't help that husband has been quite vocal (negative) in front of them too. I just don't know what to do. i don't really want to disrupt the home life if difficult child isn't stable, but if it's part of why she's not stable maybe it's better to get out. I'm very lost. Not enough $$ to really afford a divorce, live on my own and take care of both kids!