Our son has been employed for three weeks. During that time we paid his car insurance, gifts to give family members, cigarettes...etc. Of course he knew he owed us money when he got his first check. He wasn’t at our house when he got his check. He was with a friend. Well he came home last night. When I got off work of course I asked for the money he owed us. His reply was he didn’t have it that he loaned it to someone. Yes such a lie. I became very upset that in 5 days of not being here he didn’t have any money. I told him to get out of the house and go stay at the Salvation Army. He was all snuggled in his bed. I told him to leave. He groaned so I had his Dad to go tell him to leave. He got some things together and referenced that he was homeless. He has Schizoaffective Disorder Bipolar type so I want him to stay on his medications. I give them and medications are locked up. So why do I have a tight chest when confrontation? Why is it hard to do this. Addicts don’t care about others just themselves. He will be 33 the day after Christmas. We have enabled since he was 17 Would appreciable your comments.