I am reading a wonderful book. The name of it is Setting Boundaries with your Adult Child. It is by Allison Bottke. It has helped me tremendously already. I went flower shopping with my daughter today. She has a good eye for beautiful things - because she is beautiful. Anyway, it was so windy we about got blown away. I enjoyed my time with her. If you have any spare money and need a breakthrough - that book is for you. I started crying when I read some of it because it sounded like it was me writing it!