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Mom? What's a difficult child?
Soooo,(As my 4yo N would say in her Shelbytucky accent)
In the past week and a half since husband has been home. He has an acute case of Gout... can't walk. He will not go see doctor. OK
I have had to unload out pick up full of dirt, mow and weed our 1 1/4 acre yard.
We put up a new fence and landscaping (curb appeal) to sell her, great now that we are moving it looks nice!!!
So the old fart next door ( the state rep) has had his newspaper box in our yard since we moved in, now with landscaping it is in the way... we have talked 2x... nicely.
newspaper driver keeps taking out our landscaping, so husband RIPS out the newspaper pole and throws it on neighbors lawn!!! (So not my husband)
Neighbor tries to say he is disappointed in us using too much of our yard for landscaping... and he doesn't want his yard messed up by the driver!!! husband got into it with him... every point was valid. We gave neighbor extra space on his side so he would not keep hitting our fence! everyone thinks it looks wonderful, before it was a 3 foot chain link broken fence. So after a yelling match, husband flat out told him. NO...
The neighbors treat us like dirt because we are the newest here and the youngest. So when we got home yesterday, neighbor was MOVING the box!!!
He fully admitted he was wrong. He is also going to stop putting his garbage out on our yard also!!!
We also thought we had a leak under our sink, awful stench... called plumber. Ended up being a dead mouse!!! So no plumber bill...
mother in law has made more dumb comments to me about how I am unapproachable and flat out lied about me not writing her... I actually tried to write her and told her all about how K was doing. She didn't like the truth so she didn't reply. husband was not going to respond to her and just let it go. I basically told him he HAD to talk to his Mom or at least address all of this. I was so proud of him, I just wanted him to realize that I am his wife and he needs to let his Stepdad and his Mom know that they can not do this anymore. They do not put up with it for themselves and would protect each other fiercely.
So he did, he stood up for me!!! He called his Mom out on all of it. She of course denied it all. But it made me feel so good!!!
I am sorry I have not been around, K has been pretty violent. We went and did a blood draw on yesterday, she did GREAT. EMLA and 1/2 a Diazapam... Awesome.
School is out in 2 weeks, I am holding a end of school and early Birthday for K, her first party!!! We have lost of family visiting before we move, which will make the packing hard.
I think K's Depakote is working a little bit?!?!?
I will try to catch up with my reading, ASAP.
OH and I bought, BOOM BLOX!!! For WII... I am addicted. This is the coolest game. husband and I have sat up 2 nights in a row playing... we had a GC... best purchase ever!!!
So that's it the good and the bad...
In the past week and a half since husband has been home. He has an acute case of Gout... can't walk. He will not go see doctor. OK
I have had to unload out pick up full of dirt, mow and weed our 1 1/4 acre yard.
We put up a new fence and landscaping (curb appeal) to sell her, great now that we are moving it looks nice!!!
So the old fart next door ( the state rep) has had his newspaper box in our yard since we moved in, now with landscaping it is in the way... we have talked 2x... nicely.
newspaper driver keeps taking out our landscaping, so husband RIPS out the newspaper pole and throws it on neighbors lawn!!! (So not my husband)
Neighbor tries to say he is disappointed in us using too much of our yard for landscaping... and he doesn't want his yard messed up by the driver!!! husband got into it with him... every point was valid. We gave neighbor extra space on his side so he would not keep hitting our fence! everyone thinks it looks wonderful, before it was a 3 foot chain link broken fence. So after a yelling match, husband flat out told him. NO...
The neighbors treat us like dirt because we are the newest here and the youngest. So when we got home yesterday, neighbor was MOVING the box!!!
He fully admitted he was wrong. He is also going to stop putting his garbage out on our yard also!!!
We also thought we had a leak under our sink, awful stench... called plumber. Ended up being a dead mouse!!! So no plumber bill...
mother in law has made more dumb comments to me about how I am unapproachable and flat out lied about me not writing her... I actually tried to write her and told her all about how K was doing. She didn't like the truth so she didn't reply. husband was not going to respond to her and just let it go. I basically told him he HAD to talk to his Mom or at least address all of this. I was so proud of him, I just wanted him to realize that I am his wife and he needs to let his Stepdad and his Mom know that they can not do this anymore. They do not put up with it for themselves and would protect each other fiercely.
So he did, he stood up for me!!! He called his Mom out on all of it. She of course denied it all. But it made me feel so good!!!
I am sorry I have not been around, K has been pretty violent. We went and did a blood draw on yesterday, she did GREAT. EMLA and 1/2 a Diazapam... Awesome.
School is out in 2 weeks, I am holding a end of school and early Birthday for K, her first party!!! We have lost of family visiting before we move, which will make the packing hard.
I think K's Depakote is working a little bit?!?!?
I will try to catch up with my reading, ASAP.
OH and I bought, BOOM BLOX!!! For WII... I am addicted. This is the coolest game. husband and I have sat up 2 nights in a row playing... we had a GC... best purchase ever!!!
So that's it the good and the bad...