Her mother refuses to let her know about my fathers past. She has only ever said to my sister that the eldest daughter, the on who is shunned, seduced and had sex with my father and therefore she is a tramp, etc etc. My sister has been told by her mother that my father was not at fault, that he was too drunk and thought that he was having sex with her (the mother). And that because of this sister, my sister and the middle girl were removed for a year into foster care. Can you all believe it? When I spoke to her mother to tell her yesterday that he confessed in writing to every person he raped or sexually assaulted, I told her he confessed to also raping her daughter. She said NO. My daughter "F'ed" your sisters father. That is when the call degraded to yelling and screaming. She went postal on me, I yelled back to try to calm her down to just breathe, and LISTEN. And she went off that I was going to never see my sister again etc and I had to hang up because I could no longer listen to her craziness. She then went home and was hysterical and screeching at my sister. Accused my sister of stuff (untrue stuff) and said she's going to turn out just like S. (the elder shunned sister), that she'll treat people horribly her whole life like S. and that my sister obviously does not love her mother. Unreal!
The 16 year old sister just fb'ed me to say that my sister never wants to speak to me again because i'm trying to destroy her life and have her taken away for ever from her mom just like the other sister S. And to never ever talk to my sister again.
I had discussion with the child protection worker yesterday about this kind of thing. Me being thrown under the bus by the mother just like the other sister. THe worker told me if I have any opening to clue my sister and the 16 year old in to what my father is like and my concern is for my sisters safety, to take it with the child protection agencies blessing, and make sure the girls know the facts about our father.
So I responded as guided by the worker and explained in a fb message to this girl that I called police to verify my father went against the law and court order to the shcool and was using fb behind everyones back to see my sister because HE committed a crime. That her mother only could have my sister taken away if she SENT my sister off with our father so she was never at risk for losing my sister for this reason, because he SNUCK and had NO PERMISSION. Josie was NOT in trouble, it was NOT her fault. And her mother did not KNOW about it all. So it is our father who broke the law. The police needed only to verify he broke the law yesterday so they can arrest him and stop him. If Josie was ever to be taken away from her mohter I explained it would have nothing to do with stuff about our father and it would be if she wasn't providing safety, security and care to Josie in the house every day.
I then told her he is serial pedophile, all his victims, that he confessed to it all in writing and is going to be going to jail. Told her the TRUTH about her eldest sister, that she was raped and he CONFESSED to it in writing. She has been misinformed and my sister too. Then I explained I only want best for my sister and this was to protect her from a monster, and it is required by law for any adult knowing this man goes near my sister to call the law. Period.
We'll see how this all plays out.