Today, I balked at SOs requests to do things "he doesn't like to do" (that is, tell difficult child to open the bedroom door cause girlfriend was in there with him and, also, wanted me to clean up a mess someone had left in the bathroom) and I had the audacity to ask why he could not do these things himself (lol). He decided he would not look at an email I wanted him to see until I talked to difficult child. He also claimed he will not give me the cash I had asked for (to go grocery shopping) if I wasn't going to clean the toilet. Hmmmm ... I wonder if they make pacifiers for adults?