He and his fiancée (21y.o.) were here for Thanksgiving. He has been taking a generic wellbutrin to kick cigs. The medication has mellowed him out as well as helped him with the nicotine. This is a first for us, he was always so high strung and anti medications. His girl is keeping him in line, stopped him from drinking his thanksgiving wine too fast. She makes sure he does not overspend. She uses coupons too! I am happy that he is complying but sad that he has not yet developed his own internal brakes. She's so young to have to mother a man. I've done that since 1970 and it's exhausting. They are both taking online classes through Kaplan U. I had never heard of it. They are studying to be medical assistants. They both have jobs at the mall. He is pushing to get married and have a child by next Christmas. REALLY POOR IDEA! Of course it's none of my business. I'll have to perfect Suz's bobble head technique until my head falls off. Now that both difficult children are out of the house, they call us often. When they lived with us they always stayed in their room and would not talk. I wonder why I bothered to raise them, they never listened to me, I should have handed them over to some little girl when they were kids and have her do the job, LOL!