Why is it that family members that see your kid only once in a while say stupid things like "Gee, she seemed fine the other night, when I was there."????? It's as if they are questioning my capabilities as a parent. That just sooooo ticks me off, Especially when they are so little involved in my kids' day to day or even month to month life! The simple fact is that they are well aware of the issues that I've had with my daughter since the week I brought her home from the hospital. She's always been difficult. They've all seen her rage, so why is it so hard to believe that she has a disorder?