Well, I think the break is pretty much complete now. One of the more painful things he said in his text messages was that we had only adopted him so we could have a "pet" to "entertain" us. That one really ripped my heart out. I happened to check my FB page that same day, and J had posted some profane, malicious things on a photo from an event at our church. I hastily deleted it and blocked him (again) from FB, but not before people saw it, of course. Then he blocked us from texting. I called his phone, and left a voice mail, telling him that I am really grieved by the things he has done and said and that I hope he will get some help. Yesterday my mother in law called my husband to tell him that he is posting negative stuff on his FB page about us. I think the three feelings most prevalent right now are shock, anger, and hurt. I guess we just wait and pray from here on out. As angry as I am, I can't help but worry about where he is and what he is doing, and I feel helpless and very sad. In one of his ranting texts from two days ago, he described himself as "a vagrant and a criminal." Wow. That's almost too much to bear. I still can't believe sometimes that things have come to this point.