Forgive my newness......just found your website. My son is 29 years old, on November 4th, 2014 I caught him stealing from me. I thought for a long time he was, but couldn't prove it. Our relationship has totally gone down the tubes. Not only did he steal from me personally, he (we believe) took several items from the garage. My husband (his stepdad) said no more, not allowed in our house. We are so broken, this has been a pattern of his for years, stealing, drugs, no job, etc. He has a brother and sister that he has stolen from as well, and almost everyone that I know of.....for years and years. He is currently being treated as out patient at a Methadone Clinic, and receiving counseling there. He is so angry with rage, I know no matter how I help, I can't and it does no good. I am currently getting sued by his Landlord for $10K for damages....I signed the lease for him the day I caught him in my jewelry box, isn't that Karma or what? He is very angry that my Husband said he could not come to the house ever, and I agree with my husband, I do not trust him. I feel broken, and abused and sooo sad. I don't know where to turn or what to do. He told me that he has tried to commit suicide 2 times, and then stole money from my credit card (falsified a check) to pay for hospitalization...I think he was detoxing, but not sure. We have tried to help him for years......how do I try to keep some kind of relationship with him?