I have four children 8,6,4,3 and hold down a job with my own mental health issues. 8 has diagnosis of adhd,odd,Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD). 6 has diagnosis of adhd,odd. 4 waiting to evaluation. 3 basically normal but my issue is can someone help me understand how to balance my mental wellbeing in order to keep these kisd in line. Things seem worse as each day goes by I can't find any discipline that works. I've tried spanking, time out,123 magic,just about everything. 8 just seems to get worse as i try new forms of discipline. Can anyone help me Im about to rip my hair out.