DDD
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I'm not in crisis mode. Yep, I am repeating the Serenity Prayer and crossing my fingers. In a nutshell GFGmom announced today that easy child/difficult child and difficult child will be kicked out of the apartment she was so happy to get them into months ago...because difficult child no longer has disability coming in and his new job doesn't have a start date (if at all).
She is really sad because difficult child will have to return to her house which she doesn't want. on the other hand she is eager for him to get a big arears check from diability and wants him to add her name to his account officially when it comes.
Meanwhile I am crossing fingers, etc., that easy child/difficult child will come home and not move into an apartment with difficult child friends. He only has a couple of weeks left on probation and he has made progress lately. He's still an alcoholic but he limits his nights out to two a week and does not drive. Surrounded by difficult child's who knows what temptations will be present daily.
I am trying to stay disengaged from the possible poor choice that easy child/difficult child is apt to make. Meanwhile a couple of extra good thoughts sent thru cyber space will help me...and maybe him too. Thanks. DDD
She is really sad because difficult child will have to return to her house which she doesn't want. on the other hand she is eager for him to get a big arears check from diability and wants him to add her name to his account officially when it comes.
Meanwhile I am crossing fingers, etc., that easy child/difficult child will come home and not move into an apartment with difficult child friends. He only has a couple of weeks left on probation and he has made progress lately. He's still an alcoholic but he limits his nights out to two a week and does not drive. Surrounded by difficult child's who knows what temptations will be present daily.
I am trying to stay disengaged from the possible poor choice that easy child/difficult child is apt to make. Meanwhile a couple of extra good thoughts sent thru cyber space will help me...and maybe him too. Thanks. DDD