Does anyone know of a good book? Internet research gives so many options! Partner has been having a hard time dealing with his 2 special need siblings. He has gotten angry, has gotten sad... And it's all perfectly normal. He is the oldest and has to deal with a lot being only 6. husband and I decided it was time we explain to Partner that V has Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD). Now that we have a name for it, it might be easier to explain. We have also decided not to tell V yet about his Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD). He does not quite realize his difference yet and I don't believe he would understand it yet. We'll have to find a way to speak with Partner without his siblings being present. It even crossed my mind to ask V's SW help explaining it to Partner. I'm not sure yet. Any suggestions?