I have a 5 yr old who was recently been diagnosed with ADHD/ODD. I am also Bipolar. So together that can quite often make for a stressful situation. He's just started medication and it seems to be making a difference, but he still has horribly aggressive outbursts. Sometimes simply shrieking at the top of his lungs, others physically coming after my husband myself or our 3 yr old. We have tried the coping things the counsellor wants us to try (we've been seeing her for 8 months) but nothing seems to work. I actually had to take a video in to show her what he was like because when he's around her or her office he's on his best behaviour. He's like a totally different person. I dont know what else to do for him and I feel like a complete failure as a parent. I'm exhausted at the end of each day physically and emotionally from being blasted all afternoon. Any ideas???? Help!