I have been seeing a counselor. difficult child see's psychiatrist (although that only seems to be for medications) he sees therapist and counselor. He likes the counselor but only goes every other week. I would like it every DAY. I tried to call all of the above yesterday when school called and he refused to go to class. No one was in on Friday. "please call back on Monday" Well, Monday doesn't help. What really burns me is difficult child can get me crying for hours wondering what to do. husband was interupted from a meeting, yet when husband picks him up from school difficult child is happy like nothing happened and asked ME if he can go on the computer. I asked him why he is asking me, and he said because I am the one that tells him if he can or cannot. When I told him no he cannot, his actions deserve consequences he left and went to his room. I told husband that he CANNOT do this to me every single day. He cannot cause such emotional stress for either of us, he is going to kill us. husband just looked at me like I was crazy and a real meanie for saying no to the computer. difficult child listens to easy child, so I was telling easy child (24 yrs.) easy child said, "so what do you want me to do about it, he's only 12". There was a time when easy child and difficult child would go at it, but since easy child is not here much of the time He is either use to difficult child's actions or just doesn't see it. easy child takes difficult child all over, to concerts, movies different events. He already made plans with him for Summerfest. I heard and said difficult child isn't going anywhere if he doesn't do his school work and go to class. Nobody said a word. I just cannot do this. Then...when difficult child came home from school all happy and such he says, "MOM, guess what. Two kids in my new class got into a fight. Teacher had to seperate them. One said he was bringing a knife on Monday, the other said he was bringing his gun and was going to shoot him 6 times." I asked if anyone heard this, he said only a few kids. I asked him if he told his teacher he said "NO,I DON'T LIKE THE KID MUCH ANYWAY"! Where is his MIND? Here is a kid deathly afraid of school shootings, who wants metal detectors and the doors locked. He said he would NOT participate in a lock-down he would run because if you stay at school you'll get killed. I don't care if he gives a hoot about anyone, How could he just say that. I told him I am going to contact school and let them know and he flipped out. He said they will know it is him and he will get in trouble with these kids then. What should I do?