Well, my daughter, who was homeless last June, is coming for a visit. It is only a 4 day "visit", but will be interesting. She has gone through a lot in 6 mo., hopefully growth wise as well as realizing the pain of what her life is. She was hospitalized a bit before Christmas due to mental issues, has since lost her job and her only vehicle is not working and is too old to to put money into at this point. Her other adult daughter is living with her, working and paying the bills for the time being. So, my adult daughter will be here in February for 4 days, after the awful scene between her and her oldest daughter here. She called me today to ask if she could stay with me those days. I told her I would be ok with that with the stipulation that there is to be no drama and none of her old "friends" come to my home. The old "friends" are an ex boyfriend, ex fg who used her and was her partner in crime for years meaning that they milked the system, drank together, and did other things that I am glad I don't know. They came to blows and the friendship ended last summer during the big drama that caused my daughter to leave town. So, after saying all that, I am understandably nervous but will be ok as long as her friends stay away. Funny how much I worry and feel sad that we don't have a relationship, but now that she is going to actually visit, I am nervous. She did say that she wanted to see me and her grandmother and her grandkids, which I am glad to hear. She needs to mend relations with her family and move on and be happy. I hope the visit goes well for all of us as I need to heal too and be able to quit worrying about her.