So my life has been upside down lately with everything imaginable going on. I am hanging by a thread... Anyway...difficult child just calls from the nurses office at school, crying. It seems that the boy she has been "going out with" we will call him Sam. Well Sam texted her while she was in school and was like, oh by the way, before we were going out I promised my ex girlfriend that I would take her to the prom. So I'm going to take her to the prom, you don't mind right. Now keeping in mind that ex girlfriend goes to difficult children school, and she then walks up to difficult child with a look on her face and was like, ha... your own boyfriend is going to the prom with me! Now ladies and any gents that may be reading. I am at a loss as to what to do or say to help difficult child. She had been very happy and stable lately. This boyfriend is a nice kid. What now. She was like can you talk to him. Ah, no I can't get involved with this.. My advise was to tell him, actually I do mind, but if you have made up your mind then what can I do to stop you. I wish you would have taken my feelings into consideration. But I know whats going to happen, she is so afraid to lose boyfriend that she will do anything to keep him...i just don't know what to do. On one hand I want to tell her that its not big deal, on the other hand i want to tell her, that she should dump him, if he doesn't have respect for her feelings he never will. But then if she dumps him the ex girlfriend wins! UGH. I'm sorry I'm rambling. I can't take teenagers anymore. I can't take DRAMA anymore. Advice please?