I got a call from my dad just now. Apparently difficult child has moved back into his building (without my dad's knowledge) after finding out from someone that my dad legally needs to give him 30 days notice in order to evict him. He is living there with that girl, 2 dogs, and another homeless guy. The place is trashed. Holes in the wall. Doors ripped off of hinges. Carpets ripped up. Furniture destroyed. Rotting food everywhere. And this is a 6 apartment building. 6 apartments trashed. Every other tenant who lived there has moved out because of difficult child. 4 tenants left since September bc of him. My dad is now in foreclosure because he can't pay the mortgage without any tenants. All my father wanted to do was help him. He wanted to give him a new start. He tried to guide him and love him. difficult child has literally destroyed my dad's life and cost him everything he's worked for. The police and courthouse told my dad sorry but the law is the law. He needs to give him 30 days and then he can evict and sue him for back rent and damages. My father is a 65 year old liver transplant patient with numerous health problems and this is killing him. difficult child keeps sending my dad texts saying "who has the last laugh now" and calling him all sorts of horrible names. I've never heard my dad sound so defeated. Never in his life. Today I heard total defeat in his voice. He's devastated. I am truly beyond words. I'm done with difficult child. I want no more to do with him. I will not take or return calls or texts. I will not respond to any emails or letters. No more looking at Facebook to check on him. I want no more to do with a person who will do anything in their power to hurt others. He's damaged beyond repair. There's nothing left for me to do but let go.