He has made religious choices that are different from what the rest of the family follows. He feels anything Christian, Buddhist, or just not his particular brand of "Wicca" is not of any value. He mocks the family traditions, and is really trying to get husband and I to tell his grandpa to let him have his own beliefs and that the rest of us should follow his beliefs because he is just so special.
He can have his own beliefs. We really don't care, it is his behavior we care about. It is just NOT acceptable to make fun of anyone else's religion. Or try to "convert" his siblings to his brand of "Wicca". They are the rudest in rejecting him, just totally walking away. Jess is very angry, she sees this as just another way to tell the rest of us we are not any good.
The "brand of 'Wicca'" phrase is used because he is NOT following ANY established version of Wicca. Not that ANY of us can find (and we are pretty dang good researchers!). He takes bits and pieces of what he wants and ignores anything inconvenient.
Today he came over with my parents because he wanted to celebrate "Yule" as it fits with his beliefs more than Christmas. He may not get much for Christmas simply because the way he lorded it over us all.
Any suggestions to help us with this? My father is about to go ballistic because the religion thing. NOT that my father is any certain religion, just that the total disrespect for any other religion is tooooo much.
We did decline to give him his presents today. He acted like a martyr. Big sighs. Forlorn looks and sad whispers about not being respected because we are all "blindly following the myth of a false God". Yeah. that went over like a lead balloon.
Any ideas would be appreciated.
Susie
He can have his own beliefs. We really don't care, it is his behavior we care about. It is just NOT acceptable to make fun of anyone else's religion. Or try to "convert" his siblings to his brand of "Wicca". They are the rudest in rejecting him, just totally walking away. Jess is very angry, she sees this as just another way to tell the rest of us we are not any good.
The "brand of 'Wicca'" phrase is used because he is NOT following ANY established version of Wicca. Not that ANY of us can find (and we are pretty dang good researchers!). He takes bits and pieces of what he wants and ignores anything inconvenient.
Today he came over with my parents because he wanted to celebrate "Yule" as it fits with his beliefs more than Christmas. He may not get much for Christmas simply because the way he lorded it over us all.
Any suggestions to help us with this? My father is about to go ballistic because the religion thing. NOT that my father is any certain religion, just that the total disrespect for any other religion is tooooo much.
We did decline to give him his presents today. He acted like a martyr. Big sighs. Forlorn looks and sad whispers about not being respected because we are all "blindly following the myth of a false God". Yeah. that went over like a lead balloon.
Any ideas would be appreciated.
Susie