Well, so much for the night to myself.
difficult child 2 spent the night last night, which would have been ok had his difficult child girlfriend not called every...ohhhh...10 minutes. And when he wouldn't answer his cell, she called my house (I'm so mad that my number was given out). So, when he told her not to call the house, she had a male friend call and ask for difficult child 2. When she got on the phone, he told her again not to call the house and she started to argue. So, I picked up an extension and told her that this is my house and to stop calling. Then at 12:40am get a call from private caller and they hang up when I answer.
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difficult child 2, who had been asleep, texted her and told her not to call. She then called him on his cell and wanted to argue with him...something about something she wanted him to do and he didn't want to. He told her he was sleeping, but she wouldn't stop and they were getting louder and I, well, kinda went off. Actually, no kinda about it. I went off. This is my house, you know. I don't want the drama in MY house.
So....when difficult child 2 told me he was going home tonight, I was thinking it was going to be so nice to have the house to myself. easy child worked and then went to change his brakes. He's still not home. I would have had so much peace and quiet.
Except, that while cooking dinner, difficult child 2 started talking about stuff - nothing in particular - and the more he talked, the more worked up he got. To the point where he said that he wants to go home, take his mom's car and go to his girlfriend's and just do something stupid. Sigh............
It's like watching my difficult child get herself worked up. Difference is my difficult child gets worked up much faster; however, difficult child 2 goes out and does stupid stuff that could land him in juvie.
At that point, I told him that I wanted him to stay here. I don't want him do anything stupid. Or, rather, anything else stupid.
I took him home to get clothes and he's yelling at his brother and yelling at his mom. His girlfriend is calling his cell every 10 minutes even though he told her he was mad and would call her when he calmed down. And I'm just staying as serene as possible, repeating to myself that I can't control how other people act; only how I react. Deep breaths.
And now she's mad because she doesn't want him to stay here. She wants him to stay at home so he can take off in his mom's car (he doesn't have his license, either - besides the fact that he wouldn't have permission to go and is on probation) and go down and see her.
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I'm pretty sure that's what she was arguing with him about last night at 1 in the morning; because he had changed his mind.
by the way, I called her house at 1:30am and asked to speak to her mother. "She's sleeping." I responded that I would expect her to be sleeping at that hour just like you would expect one to be sleeping at 12:40am when she called and hung up. "Oh, no. That wasn't me.", all innocent. I told her that I didn't believe her and not to call my house again. At least she hasn't.
Never said I was nice. Disrupting what's supposed to be my restful week.
Oh, and this girlfriend is also working on her 3rd phantom pregnancy.
But, other than that I've enjoyed my break.
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