Well I have to admit I have changed. My difficult child happened to get dropped off over here yesterday. he had called me to come and get him but I couldnt - so when he got here he thought we would take him to the ER to get pain pills - he was in pain - or take him to his enabling friends in a near by city - well the answer was no to all counts! So he proceeds to use foul language and call me every name in the book to intimidate me into doing it - but it didnt work - I was about to call the police when my hubby walked in - then difficult child changes his tune - he did continue to call the friend he is living with that had gone out on a date with his live-in pregnant girlfriend - he didnt know when they were coming back, etc. - so he freaked out about that and didnt know what he was going to do - so husband said go back and wait for them to come back - well they finally called and we took him back where he lives - it is amazing how he can come in here and act crazy - make me think he is as bad off as Michael Jackson - then he calls this morning and asks me why he has nose bleeds!!!!! He was so rude, inconsiderate, foul, and everything that a mother doesnt want their children to be - I did look at him once and say he wasnt the child I raised - he was a stranger in my house - I wanted him to leave - then he said you are not my mother either and I said oh yes I am - I have not changed - you have. So I thought about doing a restraining order to keep him off the property - they have to threaten to harm someone before that can be done - or no trespassing - maybe that will work - So now he has to go to an interview about his food stamps - I am not taking him because I am going to eat lunch with teacher friends - also he wants to go to the psychiatrist - I cant afford it and neither can he - so what gives - he needs to go to mental health - duh!