Well on Friday night difficult child was really bullying me & scaring me a little bit. Doing his usual thing of trying to control everything. He finally accused me of messing with "something" in his room & now I owe him $40. I'm sure he must have had drugs in a pocket or something like that & I washed them. He dumped out my purse looking for money but I said good luck, nothing in there today I'm broke. He took my Ipod & said he would return it when I gave him $40.00 H called the cops at that time, when the cops entered difficult child was going for his pocket & they searched him, found some ectasy & took him to jail. His "friend" ran out the back door when the cops got there so we did get rid of him. Of course jails are full so they sent difficult child home at 4am. He blames us of course but I think he is realizing he needs rehab. He woke up later on Saturday & left with another friend, I haven't seen him since then. I am so worried, but it has been quieter around the house. Thanks for listening, and all the advise, it really helped me stay strong through this whole thing.