I get so worried sometimes that difficult child will one day be homeless. husband & I are 46 & 51, & we will not always be here. We don't have much family either, and that family is not rich or have lots of extra space. It is pretty frightening to think about... but it seems so possible. He doesn't appreciate school work & only cares about computer games etc. When he doesn't get the games or has restrictions, he goes psychotic.