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Hi all,
So much for me staying away! His longest tantrum only between 35-45 minutes and sometimes several times a day but only lasting a few minutes! Yeah! But still not listening to anything! So quick run down, he was hard to get up for the TBall game this morning,had 15 minutes to get ready, then insisted on a snow- cone before the game,which my dad accidentally knocked over, my son demanding a new one all day! Sadly the icecram trucks go by my home every couple hrs at least! So anyway, went to the college campus for my books, my kids whined about snacks and books, they got snacks. Went to the mall, he wanted to play downstairs( couldn't tight schedule) to look at bikes and t.vs. He threw a tantrum over not getting a skateboard and a new bike( neighbor bought him one a month ago,gave my daughter gift card, so she wanted a bike now) or MC Donald that he knew is there but didn't pass! We walked outside, he refused my hand, ran out into the street and tripped and fell and was mad at me. Went to Barnes and Noble,they each got a book, he whined about not getting more things. Went to get them 2 fish each for our tank,good there. Got home and he was OK for a bit. Then he went on and on about going to a dollar store to get something and we told him not today,look at all the stuff he just got.He said you promised, I said "yes" but I told you we wont get that today, if you get the other stuff, earlier he agreed"! Anyways, to the disorders running in the family. Out of the blue their Uncle( fathers side) came by to see the kids.. hasnt seen my daughter in 10 years, supposedly wasnt told about his brothers and my son! Long story there! So he said his son is probably going to be diagnosed with Ashbergers? Sorry if that's spelt wrong!He said hes talented but yet violent,problems,and hit his head when he was 4yrs old as well. So, his son, possibly something wrong with mine, speech issues with my son,sons father and his other son. Violence with both father and this Uncle. As I said my mom had Schizophrenia, but my sister and I are OK. Praying my kids are OK, they show no symptoms of that. So all this time I am feeling it is all my fault, I feel maybe I should only take a little blame and put a little on it being in his genes? Their father says we should be together so he wouldn't act this way! My son demanded a hot dog in front of his"long lost uncle"lol and his uncle said he sounds just like his dad! I know you all mentioned something like this when I mentioned the fathers issues/drinking. Maybe its really sinking in now? I just want my kids to have a good solid chance at life, without all these setbacks! Kinda weird after 10 years the uncle comes by regardless of what his brother had to say( they don't always get along part of reason he stayed away?) Thanks all, sorry sooooo long!
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So much for me staying away! His longest tantrum only between 35-45 minutes and sometimes several times a day but only lasting a few minutes! Yeah! But still not listening to anything! So quick run down, he was hard to get up for the TBall game this morning,had 15 minutes to get ready, then insisted on a snow- cone before the game,which my dad accidentally knocked over, my son demanding a new one all day! Sadly the icecram trucks go by my home every couple hrs at least! So anyway, went to the college campus for my books, my kids whined about snacks and books, they got snacks. Went to the mall, he wanted to play downstairs( couldn't tight schedule) to look at bikes and t.vs. He threw a tantrum over not getting a skateboard and a new bike( neighbor bought him one a month ago,gave my daughter gift card, so she wanted a bike now) or MC Donald that he knew is there but didn't pass! We walked outside, he refused my hand, ran out into the street and tripped and fell and was mad at me. Went to Barnes and Noble,they each got a book, he whined about not getting more things. Went to get them 2 fish each for our tank,good there. Got home and he was OK for a bit. Then he went on and on about going to a dollar store to get something and we told him not today,look at all the stuff he just got.He said you promised, I said "yes" but I told you we wont get that today, if you get the other stuff, earlier he agreed"! Anyways, to the disorders running in the family. Out of the blue their Uncle( fathers side) came by to see the kids.. hasnt seen my daughter in 10 years, supposedly wasnt told about his brothers and my son! Long story there! So he said his son is probably going to be diagnosed with Ashbergers? Sorry if that's spelt wrong!He said hes talented but yet violent,problems,and hit his head when he was 4yrs old as well. So, his son, possibly something wrong with mine, speech issues with my son,sons father and his other son. Violence with both father and this Uncle. As I said my mom had Schizophrenia, but my sister and I are OK. Praying my kids are OK, they show no symptoms of that. So all this time I am feeling it is all my fault, I feel maybe I should only take a little blame and put a little on it being in his genes? Their father says we should be together so he wouldn't act this way! My son demanded a hot dog in front of his"long lost uncle"lol and his uncle said he sounds just like his dad! I know you all mentioned something like this when I mentioned the fathers issues/drinking. Maybe its really sinking in now? I just want my kids to have a good solid chance at life, without all these setbacks! Kinda weird after 10 years the uncle comes by regardless of what his brother had to say( they don't always get along part of reason he stayed away?) Thanks all, sorry sooooo long!
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