into difficult child???? Well tonight I confronted easy child 1. I have suspected he's been smoking pot. (just little things give it away--mom's not stupid) I asked him if he's been doing this and what a surprise--he's suddenly stopped. When???? When I faced him with it??? I told him your going to be 19 you get caught your going to go to jail. Well he blew up and all of the sudden I'm now "such a wonderful mother" What the h*ll??? He's mad at me because I confronted him!!! And then he brings up difficult child(whose in Residential Treatment Center (RTC) by the way) he has nothing to do with this. Could it be the guilt that made him blow up???? I can't imagine. You know if he doesn't like it here, living rent free, clean clothes ,food, all utilities paid he can go someplace else to ruin his life. He thinks I'm going to apoligize for confronting him. I think NOT. He has yet to visit difficult child maybe because all those times when difficult child said easy child 1 was smoking dope he was telling the truth. I thought difficult child was just trying to push the blame off himself, but he wasn't and I owe difficult child an apology for not believing him. Maybe easy child feels guilty for sharing his "stash" difficult child at times and can't face him now. I don't know. One thing I do know I've done all I can for my boys and I get sh*t on and I'M TIRED OF IT!!!!!!!! Sorry for venting all just at the end of my rope with this. difficult child for years and now "easy child 1" I can't take this.