Hi All - I wrote a little while ago regarding my mentally ill son. He is 22. He has been hospitalized for the past 3 weeks, while I try to get him in a program called AOT where he is court mandated to take his medications. The court proceeding is tomorrow. He currently has a criminal court case which is ongoing. He was kicked out of my ex-husband's house for not following rules, drug abuse, and violent behavior. He now has a restraining order against him. Once at the shelter, he stole a cell phone from someone and proceeded to have a fight and got sent to the emergency room. He is totally non compliant with his medications and I fear once he gets out, he will just turn to drugs again. I have been considering renting a room for him as it is extremely cold in the eastern part of the US. But, upon talking with him, I realized that he has no self awareness about his condition or even care. He is extremely difficult to deal with, even while being in the hospital and medicated. My Momma's heart is having a hard time knowing that if I do not get him a room he will be homeless. I know he won't follow the rules of the shelter and could get hurt. I don't believe he will follow rules in anyone's home either. It is a difficult choice. Would I be enabling? This has been going on for about 4 years now. I am exhausted, on anti-depressants, medication to sleep as well as high blood pressure medicine. I feel as though I don't have anything to work with as he doesn't acknowledge any of his own doing in why he is where he is.