The last 5 years have been hell on wells....let's face it ladies, a brain injury & my husband dying have taken me to my knees. The tweedles have kept me down on my knees. After kt's "antics" a couple of weeks ago & the ensuing chaos (i.e. commitment proceedings, appeals, & discharge home) have made me rethink my life. Along with my therapist's blessing I'm putting up brick walls to protect myself from kt & wm's nonsense. Observe & report ~ that is my role now. Observe & report. I can no longer live in terror over kt & wm's poor choices. Choices that resulted in kt being beaten & burnt by cigarettes & then left way & hell & gone. I'm in the process of taking tests to go back to school. I'm hoping to have a job in the next year or so. I may put my home on the market; not sure about that yet as I want to enjoy my home after all the work I've put into it. husband & I created a home here, a sanctuary if you will, before the tweedles arrived. I've another staff mtg this afternoon to discuss kt's choices for the future. She wants to go to an assisted living apartment situation. No where near close to that ~ she'll have to accept the help to achieve that goal. kt will be welcome to live here if she honors the rules here. However, I'm moving ahead. I will no longer be held hostage by kt or wm.