Difficult Child daughter living in our house with 11 month old son Z she had with one of the long string of losers she's hooked up with over the last 6 years (she's 24). So, after some shenanigans by loser sperm donor (he is not a father in any sense of the word), wife spent days in court with Difficult Child getting custody worked out and a restraining order. Yes, you guessed it. Difficult Child missed loser and went to his house with the baby to "talk it out." Surprise - the leopard didn't change his spots! She says he pushed her, decided to call police several hours later. So here they are! They know as well as I do this is a waste of time. It's he said- she said. She violated her own restraining order. If he is charged she'll change her story. She puts the baby in harm's way with her idiotic decisions. She seems perfectly content to live the life of a thirteen year old forever. It would be an easy decision to kick her out but for Z. Anyhow, I'm an avid reader of the site but don't contribute much so thought I'd put something in.