Well...it was bound to happen sooner or later. exgf filed for child support. She served difficult child 1 on tuesday. 2wks ago she left a message for husband on his cell that she wanted to talk to only him. I explained to husband my reasons for him not talking with her alone. Manipulation being #1. Speaking to us as a couple #2, and using anything he says against difficult child 1 as #3. husband didn't quite believe me so I had our old counselor call him. husband didn't meet with her and she called him and said anytime we wanted to see the baby we could yada, yada, yada. I think what she really wanted to do was to tell husband she was planning on filing and husband would say, you do what you have to do, or you probably should have done that or something to that effect and then she would turn it around and tell difficult child 1 "your parents told me to file" etc, etc. Anyways............we've got legal documents! Yuck. She wants difficult child to pay her legal fees, child support, etc. She put something in there about..."....requests that either a parent facilitator be appointed in this case or that a custody evaluation be performed to assist in the visitation of the minor child..." Does that mean she only wants difficult child to have the baby around us and not necessarily by himself? Since we are already assisting difficult child with housing et al, we'll be talking to a family law person on Monday. Any thoughts ideas?