My 19 year old son is flunking out of community college. He smokes pot and parties and has no real direction in life. He is the youngest of our three sons. Not one of the them has accomplished even an Associates Degree. I understand that college isn’t for everyone, and I would fully support him in a trade or technical school. But he just don’t seem to have the drive to do anything. My husband and I are hard working middle class people who have tried to give our kids a good life and college opportunity. With the third one flunking out, I’m really feeling like a failure as a parent. At this point I’ll be telling the youngest to get a full time job and start paying rent or move out.