Original Subject line: SD won't give difficult child an IEP - only offers 504
We had our team meeting on October 9th, and the public school said my 4 year 10 month old difficult child (who is in a Kindergarten that accepts 4 year 9 month olds) is ineligible for Special Education or for an IEP -- that they would only give her a 504 plan. This is because they said she has a disability, but that it is not interfering with her performance in school. I need advice on whether to accept what they are offering, or ask for more services or for an IEP, which I understand has teeth in it, unlike 504 plans. The 504 plan means that she would get one half-hour per week of Occupational Therapist (OT). My guess is that that would be a group session. This is because the Occupational Therapist (OT) said that she has a poor pencil grip (overhand, fisted, pronated), which barely makes a mark on the paper, and makes her handwriting poor for her age. The neuropsychologist who tested her privately had also stated that she had fine motor problems. The Handwriting Without Tears program is in use in the regular classrooms in this school. The Occupational Therapist (OT) also said that she has problems with visual tracking, and loses eye contact with obects when they cross the midline. The Occupational Therapist (OT) said she shows poor motor planning. The Occupational Therapist (OT) also said that she has low muscle tone, joint hypermobility, and low strength in her upper body. The neuropsychologist had identified problems with motor planning, visuo-motor tasks, and visual tasks (e.g. doing puzzles, putting blocks into designs to match her designs). All of this is supposed to be addressed by the 1/2 hour per week group session with the Occupational Therapist (OT). The speech therapist, school psychologist, Special Education teacher, and classroom teacher all said that she is doing well in the classroom (singing, smiling, playing with other kids, following the rules, participating, speaking when the teacher speaks to her) and less well but OK on the playground. The Special Education teacher and SLT did some minimal testing that showed my difficult child to be age-appropriate in her academic skills (e.g. recognizing letters, counting) and social-pragmatic language skills(even though the neuropsychologist, in much more extensive testing, found her to be below age level in a number ways). Since the SD found my difficult child to be age or grade appropriate and adjsting well to school, they do not feel any other services are required. They say that she has not seemed withdrawn or aggressive in the classroom (she was withdrawn but not aggressive at preschool, and stopped being aggressive or oppositional or defiant at home a month or so ago and never behaved that way at preschool). Therefore, they do not feel that she needs any social skills training, besides which a daily social skills lesson is incorporated into the classroom for several other kids who are in there (including one with Asperger's/possible Autism). The neuropsychologist added up the fine motor, motor planning, visual-motor and social skills problems into NonVerbal Learning Disorder (NVLD) and right hemisphere problems and wrote a very negative report on my difficult child -- made it seem like she was quite impaired. The SD was painting a much rosier picture. THe SD dismissed this discrepancy by saying my difficult child did not perform at her best for the neuropsychologist because she did not want to be there (true enough, and indicated in the report). This SD has a reputation for doing right by kids with Special Education needs, and I know my daughter is indeed doing OK in the classroom, but she can barely make a few wispy marks on paper, whereas some of the other kids are writing words effectively. Should I just let my little 4 year 10 month old have an enjoyable Kindergarten experience and a little Occupational Therapist (OT), and see how she is doing in six months (anticipating that she might spend another year in Kindergarten), or should I push for more from the SD? If I should push for more, what should I ask for? A part-time aide to work with my daughter in the classroom when they do writing tasks, since this is a class of 19 kids with one teacher, and a half-time aide, and some of the other kids have special needs, so it seems unlikely that she will have a huge amount of time to correct my difficult child's pencil grip? What else should I ask for? Or would it be best for my difficult child just to have a normal school year without an IEP, and some time for her immature brain to develop, since she is young to be in school, and younger than many of the kids in the class (the oldest who does not have substantial special needs is probably five years eight months old). Please give me some advice. Thanks in advance...![Wink ;) ;)](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
We had our team meeting on October 9th, and the public school said my 4 year 10 month old difficult child (who is in a Kindergarten that accepts 4 year 9 month olds) is ineligible for Special Education or for an IEP -- that they would only give her a 504 plan. This is because they said she has a disability, but that it is not interfering with her performance in school. I need advice on whether to accept what they are offering, or ask for more services or for an IEP, which I understand has teeth in it, unlike 504 plans. The 504 plan means that she would get one half-hour per week of Occupational Therapist (OT). My guess is that that would be a group session. This is because the Occupational Therapist (OT) said that she has a poor pencil grip (overhand, fisted, pronated), which barely makes a mark on the paper, and makes her handwriting poor for her age. The neuropsychologist who tested her privately had also stated that she had fine motor problems. The Handwriting Without Tears program is in use in the regular classrooms in this school. The Occupational Therapist (OT) also said that she has problems with visual tracking, and loses eye contact with obects when they cross the midline. The Occupational Therapist (OT) said she shows poor motor planning. The Occupational Therapist (OT) also said that she has low muscle tone, joint hypermobility, and low strength in her upper body. The neuropsychologist had identified problems with motor planning, visuo-motor tasks, and visual tasks (e.g. doing puzzles, putting blocks into designs to match her designs). All of this is supposed to be addressed by the 1/2 hour per week group session with the Occupational Therapist (OT). The speech therapist, school psychologist, Special Education teacher, and classroom teacher all said that she is doing well in the classroom (singing, smiling, playing with other kids, following the rules, participating, speaking when the teacher speaks to her) and less well but OK on the playground. The Special Education teacher and SLT did some minimal testing that showed my difficult child to be age-appropriate in her academic skills (e.g. recognizing letters, counting) and social-pragmatic language skills(even though the neuropsychologist, in much more extensive testing, found her to be below age level in a number ways). Since the SD found my difficult child to be age or grade appropriate and adjsting well to school, they do not feel any other services are required. They say that she has not seemed withdrawn or aggressive in the classroom (she was withdrawn but not aggressive at preschool, and stopped being aggressive or oppositional or defiant at home a month or so ago and never behaved that way at preschool). Therefore, they do not feel that she needs any social skills training, besides which a daily social skills lesson is incorporated into the classroom for several other kids who are in there (including one with Asperger's/possible Autism). The neuropsychologist added up the fine motor, motor planning, visual-motor and social skills problems into NonVerbal Learning Disorder (NVLD) and right hemisphere problems and wrote a very negative report on my difficult child -- made it seem like she was quite impaired. The SD was painting a much rosier picture. THe SD dismissed this discrepancy by saying my difficult child did not perform at her best for the neuropsychologist because she did not want to be there (true enough, and indicated in the report). This SD has a reputation for doing right by kids with Special Education needs, and I know my daughter is indeed doing OK in the classroom, but she can barely make a few wispy marks on paper, whereas some of the other kids are writing words effectively. Should I just let my little 4 year 10 month old have an enjoyable Kindergarten experience and a little Occupational Therapist (OT), and see how she is doing in six months (anticipating that she might spend another year in Kindergarten), or should I push for more from the SD? If I should push for more, what should I ask for? A part-time aide to work with my daughter in the classroom when they do writing tasks, since this is a class of 19 kids with one teacher, and a half-time aide, and some of the other kids have special needs, so it seems unlikely that she will have a huge amount of time to correct my difficult child's pencil grip? What else should I ask for? Or would it be best for my difficult child just to have a normal school year without an IEP, and some time for her immature brain to develop, since she is young to be in school, and younger than many of the kids in the class (the oldest who does not have substantial special needs is probably five years eight months old). Please give me some advice. Thanks in advance...