I have a few friends who know my situation with Kat, but it's not really something I want to share with everyone I know. I have two questions. The first is the easiest: How do I answer people who I am friends with but don't want to share the gory details when they ask about Kat? Many of them are wondering where she is since she just suddenly disappeared and I'm always kind of at a loss. "Oh, she took the baby and moved to another state with a guy she just met on the internet, but I've notified CPS that she's crazy," seems a bit much. But when I just say, "Oh she moved to another state," it is followed by an awkward silence. The second one is this: I have one friend who I am very close to. She has been trying to get pregnant with no success for quite awhile now and is not dealing with it very well. She basically tells me to just blow off Kat and that I shouldn't be so upset over my situation. This past week (one of the worst I've had in my situation with-Kat) she was fairly awful to me about it and I'm having a hard time even talking to her about anything at all right now because I'm so hurt. I know she's having problems and she probably doesn't understand what it's like to have a screwed up adult child (with a baby, no less!), but this is really eating at me. Any ideas/advice would be welcome and appreciated!