As I'm waiting to find out the results of the paternity test I am getting very anxious. for a short time I was beginning to hope the baby is his because I was thinking how exciting it will be to have a little baby in the family. Now I'm beginning to focus more on what it will be like to have to allow wingnut back into my life and I'm having flashbacks of her manipulative, no boundaries behavior and the thought of it is making me ill. I keep thinking back to the constant manipulative phone calls I used to get from her when there wasn't a baby involved. I can't even imagine what she will be like now everytime my difficult child does something that she will feel the need to tell me about. I really hope we get these results soon so I can stop wondering and have the answer!!!! I should tell difficult child to call his worker at DSS and ask her how long it will be before he hears anything????