We are driving 450 miles to see our son at his college. While I'm very excited to have this quality time with him - I'm actually nervous about leaving difficult child 'behind' so to speak. I know this is craziness. She is 19. Married. A mother. Very capable of managing her own life. Her husband is a very wonderful attentive capable young man. I know I leave her in wonderful hands. Intellectually I know this is a good thing. But, emotionally it doesn't feel quite so good. Like I said - craziness. I know. But ... um ... have you ever experienced such craziness? It's comforting to know you're not crazy alone.