Hi, I was on a few days ago begging you all for advice on ODD. Well today we had our first appointment with the behaviour peadietrition. Maisie has obvious learning difficulties in motor skills, social skills and physicaly. She has quirks that fit into either Aspergers or ADHD and ODD and anxiety but not all quirks fit into one disorder so not yet got any answers as to what it is. (you guys said aspergers or Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD) so know your stuff) We have to go back next week and work through the normal methods of time out, charts ect (done these at home and school before but no improvement but have to be done again!!!) Then if after that there is still no improvements and the school have any problems we go to see the neurologists (sp) and get more tests done. We were in there 3 hours going through all the problems, there are obviously some big problems to deal with and hopefully we can now start working towards resolving them a bit. Maisie has a great knowledge about wildlife and facts, and her speech and that is fine as I thought. Just wish the toileting and Rages would sink in as easy as the names of plants and insects lol........ if only life was that simple lol. Thanks guys you all helped me so much! I will continue to visit here for advice, to get some sanity and keep you all updated! From a very frustrated, tired, worn out mummy lol.