ILMS---I pray. I make a gratitude journal. There was a time when my life was disordered and chaotic. husband was an addict and he left me to go to treatment $15000 in debt with all the bills 3 months behind. It was a nightmare. I read. I cried. I prayed. I picked myself up by the bootstraps and changed my life! I made sure that once I was out of that situation I would never be there again. husband has been in recovery for 6 years without a relapse. But...problems will always exist in life. You plow through them. You do what you can and not worry about what you can't do. Sounds simple, and it a lot of ways it is. But...it simplicity that takes work.