Spent Saturday with my girls for mom's day. husband went fishing while we went to a nice restaurant for lunch (I paid, but that's ok...I just wanted a pleasant lunch with them). We had a lovely lunch---delicious food, plus we laughed a lot and got along well. On the way home, difficult child drops the bombshell: "I'm probably going to have to move home soon." (Very long story...but difficult child has been living in various places over the last 3 months). We did, however, think she had gotten into a good living situation with a responsible young single mother---husband just moved all of her stuff into the apartment two weeks ago! She now says that roomate has lost her job---ok, but why does difficult child have to move? I don't get it. I did not say nay or yay. I did say that if she did end up back home, maybe we could finish off the basement to give her a private entrance (That was probably a mistake---to difficult child "maybe" means "yes"). Told her that dad and I would discuss it and get back with her. Anyway, husband and I agree that we will have to sit down with her and work out a plan together. Problem is, she's never been able to do that in the past...always gets mad and storms out. I KNOW that if she is unwilling to at least agree to a plan, this will never work...been there done that. She will not be allowed home if we can't agree on how we will attempt to live harmoniously together. AARRGHHH!!!