I have been in search of information and answers for over a year to explain by now 17 yr old daughters behavior (or lack of). We have been to therapy, which was disasterous, I think because of the counselor's lack of understanding the issue. I truly believe now that my difficult child (love that term) has ODD. At any rate.. I have a lot of reading to do here and beyond, but I feel like I just walked through the door of a place where I am finally no longer alone.