carrie1983
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hiya, im after some advice on my 3 year old son. i have been to the doctor and am waiting for speech therapy to begin. he is also waiting to see a pediatrician so things are moving in the right way. im just struggling to cope with his behavior and have no one to confirm or consult me with my feelings.
a little about him. he can talk but only i fully understand him, some things i struggle with. he babbles a little bit too still like a baby does. mostly its his behavior that is bad he is very naughty ALL the time, its a constant toddler tantrum since he was 18 months old. things come out the blue where ever we are or who ever he is with. i have no authority with him. at all. here is a list of things.
this is just a few things as i find it very hard to explain things, they sound trivial, im sick of people telling me he is just a boy. or feel im being judged. its that bad im used to it now and hardly notice things unless we are in a public place or around other children his age. does anyone have any advice or idea what they think? i was thinking ADHD area. any help or advice would be really appreciated as me and my husband have no authority over him. im so sad to see my sweet boy like this. as i truely believe he doesnt understand what he is doing wrong.
thank you for reading from the uk
a little about him. he can talk but only i fully understand him, some things i struggle with. he babbles a little bit too still like a baby does. mostly its his behavior that is bad he is very naughty ALL the time, its a constant toddler tantrum since he was 18 months old. things come out the blue where ever we are or who ever he is with. i have no authority with him. at all. here is a list of things.
- does not know wrong from right
- no sense of danger
- will hit out and hurt people and not understand it was wrong
- is not fully potty trained yet, will wee his clothes at least once a day.. even poo on the carpet near the potty.
- he is very intelligent can read some words wright his name and words, sing the alphabet since he was 2. but its an obsession with him, and would rather do letters than play with toys.
- will just out of no where throw something, kick punch head butt, break something.
- is the same if not worse in public places.
this is just a few things as i find it very hard to explain things, they sound trivial, im sick of people telling me he is just a boy. or feel im being judged. its that bad im used to it now and hardly notice things unless we are in a public place or around other children his age. does anyone have any advice or idea what they think? i was thinking ADHD area. any help or advice would be really appreciated as me and my husband have no authority over him. im so sad to see my sweet boy like this. as i truely believe he doesnt understand what he is doing wrong.
thank you for reading from the uk