I was really glad to come across this site because you talk about a lot of the things I'm dealing with. I have a 6 year old son who I've had problems with since he was 2. He's really aggressive, can't keep his hands to himself with other kids, will hit me if he gets really angry and throw things. Getting him to do something I ask him to do is awful too. I've tried a lot of different things-Parent Child Interaction Therapy, several different counselors, parenting class, books. They help for awhile but it's never sustainable. It's very isolating because other kids or more their parents, don't want to be around him so it's hard to do things with other families. I took him to get an evaluation but didn't like the psychologist but he told me even though he wasn't finished, he thought he probably has ADHD and ODD. I'm not sure I want him to be labeled so I haven't taken him back for an evaluation but now considering it because not sure what else to do. Any suggestions or advice you may have from your own experiences would be really appreciated. Thank you!