That is what difficult child son was yelling at me as a very angry, wet (from the hot tub) came storming down the street. Then difficult child goes to a bush and throws something in it. Apparently difficult child had a lighter and was trying to light the bushes in the mans yard on fire! That was after he ran through the man's front yard causing his dogs to bark incessantly. The man in question is the dad of a boy that difficult child goes to school with. Really a pretty nice guy, but thoroughly enraged at difficult child (I cannot blame him). Nice, guess the increase in the abilify just did not quite cut it. Did help some, but definately not with the impulsivity. At 13 1/2 he should know better than to play with lighters. And now whole neighborhood heard everything. Just great. And now, he will not quit yelling at me that the guy is lying and that he (difficult child son) only lies to dad not to me. Horse pucky, he has lied to me and gotten caught too. Now he is screaming at me that I am a brat and kicking things. Oh great. Hopefully he calms down soon. He is now grounded, no friends and no computer, and willl have extra chores to do. I hate the chore thing as that is more of a chore for me than him, as I will have to enforce it, but he needs some definate consequences for his actions.