Problem solving in the moment is very, very, difficult. CPS is hard and messy, but learning is always taking place. I don't like to talk about limitations but more about complimenting cps with particulary RDI - relationship development intervention . This intervention for all kids especially those on the spectrum uses ' guided participation and mentoring ' - cps dynamic to learn skills in the context of every day living - for eg the kitchen being the classroom Here kids learn the skills of perspective taking and problem solving not in the context of emotive problems. try to transcend basic living and make into a teachable moment - informal teaching driven by curiosity etc
I also speak about the values underlying cps ' being pro-social and working together as a family supporting each other . Another name for CPS is TLC - talking , listening, and caring - collaborative problem solving is an expression of caring for others and yourself and the family
Mindfulness for children - meditation, relaxing and calming techniques are great , also learning to be more in the moment and attentive
also hobbies, kids having an interest , mentors , older brothers, buddy-tutors, mixing and relating to people of different generations - put a kid withan adult friend , his thinking will be different
and of course - positive friends
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