hi so easy child flipped out on me it's been coming for days, i posted here because let's face it she's turned into a difficult child. i knew this trip would bring emotions for her, i knew there would be some junk. yet past week she's been soo different since off the ssri that she chose to go off of because she said it made her sick. she's been nasty, volatile, cant' talk to her, argumentative, name calling me etc. i went in her room today to say hi, tell her i put thru the food order for the following week filled house with-easy junk to snack on, etc. yet ea. week a food order will be placed and i said can you get me the container from garage and help me de decorate for xmas. she blew, name called me said how dare she have to walk the dog, feed the cats and help keep this house together at her age while i'm gone (she'll be 18 by the way in matter of mos). how unfair it is, how husband will never be home except his two days off, how it'll be her doing it all. i said no husband and i will talk to you tmrw nite obviously he's gotta keep working to make the money yet he'll pitch in as much as he can while i'm gone and he'll check in with-you each day, when you get home, curfew etc. i said i told you to come you chose not to. told you i'd cover school. why should i go because my sister is CHOSING not to eat to get attention she's demented were her words i think, on and on it went till i realized there was no point to it, she would not calm and i could not de escalate her. how i'm going to be in trouble when i leave. she threatened to not take care of pets or do anything here if i dare speak to her even slightly as a "parent" telling her what to do. i told her when i get back therapy will start she knew that, she said no way in hell io'm going. same easy child that was before the medications began. explosive, mean, angry, argumentative, chip on shoulder, a mess. i knew she'd have some emotions but what is it with kids they think nothing of their parents ever! she sees me a mess, swollen limping thru house taking in 300 worth of food for all of them, trying to get things accomplished and she sits there after 1,300 worth of christmas gifts new easy child etc. and says oh and where are my uggs that were due to come in this is bs! WOW! so i got one miserable kid who is attacking me daily who i'm trying to help who as always is ontop of me 24/7, than this one?