husband came home last night, sobbing and very apologetic and truly remorseful. I have several contingencies, he has agreed to them all. He saw psychiatrist today, and he asked me to go. So I went. husband told psychiatrist EVERYTHING. Nothing was held back. husband will be going to psychiatric hospital for a week for BiPolar (BP) and to withdraw from opiates, and then after that will be most likely doing a month or so in a treatment center. If he comes home after psychiatric hospital he will be on suboxone and do outpatient treatment. The ball is in his court. He needs to do what he needs to do, and he knows that.