I get out, what, one, maybe two nights a month to visit with friends. And tonight was the annual Xmas party/gift exchange with my dinner group but easy child had her orchestra concert performance and since it was also husband's company holiday party and he wouldn't be home until later, I would be taking her and video taping the event, then going to my party later. Well it seems that shortly after I dropped her off at home around 9pm and headed back out to see my friends, difficult child 1 and difficult child 2 got into a big fight -- I still don't know what it was about because they were both in bed when I got home. But the kicker -- and I mean this literally -- is the foot-long HOLE IN MY HALLWAY WALL from difficult child 2's FOOT when he got really mad at difficult child 1 and kicked the wall!!! GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!!!!! Whew, okay I feel a smidgen better. There is going to be some SERIOUS amends AND mending to be made around here by those two boys.