My son is 5yrs old and wavers from being a terror to a extremely loving child. He is aggressive with everyone including adults but he can also be the cuddler. We've been kicked out of 3 day cares. I'm afraid my husband or I will have to leave or jobs. The problem lies mainly in two areas. One is my husband refuses to do anything suggested by the school and behaviorist. Two is we used to be spankers and I now realize we've made it worse. It's so hard to hear the things he's done every time he goes somewhere. Recently he's been taking off his pants around other kids wtf...I just can't handle it.