Hi, I have heard from my son that my difficult child is homeless, or so he says. I had to get the restraining order in Feb. He textes my older son and today said he is sick,thrwoing up and has no food and nowhere to go atnight; I believe previously he was staying with freinds. Still not working,etc. Court case for charge I filed is pending, ordered to get counseling,medications,etc. Says he has a doctor appointment. Thursday and if we don't help him get a place to stay he will tell the doctor he wants to kill himself so at least he will be admitted and have a place to stay. I offered to get him a motel room with money he has in an acct. from my mom and asked my oldest to facilitate, but my difficult child wants us to get the room and leave a key at the front desk. I will not have it in my name so my oldest would have to meet him and make sure he gets a room,etc. Trouble is, my oldest is reluctant to get too involved because of what happened to me and can not do it immediately due to work issues. I told him to have difficult child go to local welfare and they should have some vouchers for a motel room. Or go to the hospital. if he is physically sick, he is covered by my insurance. Wants to come home but I can't let him, nothing has changed, even said to my oldest this is all because I put him in a group home when he was 12; told my oldest he still!!!! does not get it and doesn't acknowledge it's his behavior that got him there.I don't want him sick or homeless but he needs to help himself, and a week at a motel is not going to help long term. I am sad for him and this is too hard!!!! I did start therapy,finally; at least that's a start for me. Thanks to all for listening.