We told son that he would indeed be going to military school; unfortunately we discovered today my mother, who legally and morally has no rights whatsoever, has, long story short, made it so we probably cannot access the funds to pay tuition. No, it isn't identity theft or a bank issue, but just as devastating. Her words should not have been considered at all, but they were. The direct cause of her phone call was son's emails which lied to her about everything...... Just last week I thought she was finally beginning to understand. Then son got a new email ([email protected]_____) and started in again. The worst part - he REFUSES to take responsibility (and I was surprised?) and/or admit he lied (again, surprise?). I just don't get it...... I'm just sitting here crying, I don't know what to do now....I thought this was over but apparently not.