Another weekend coming to a close and difficult child is so so so unreasonable and disrespectful. She's tantruming, after I feed her and easy child I told them it would be time to clean up. difficult child has specific routine for cleaning so she goes to pick out her school clothes. She cannot find what she wants to wear and so says this to me YELLING: "I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU DID NOT DO MY LAUNDRY! NOW I DON'T HAVE ANYTHING TO WEAR ALL WEEK! WHY DIDN'T YOU WASH CLOTHES??? STUPID! WHAT AM I GOING TO WEAR NOW???" While she's doing this, she's pacing and yelling it and slamming drawers. ***Please keep in mind that difficult child has more clean clothes than myself and easy child put TOGETHER.*** i couldn't stand her speaking to me this way as if I was some dumb snotty little kid on the street and she's MY mother. I stormed in the room, lost it and started throwing all her clothes (which were CLEAN by the way) on the floor in front of her. and I said I'm tired of you acting like a little *i t c h to me! Pick out something to wear and put the rest back. Of course I felt HORRIBLE for doing this and plenty upset. I am so drained and feel so much guilt for saying this to her. WHY why why? Is guilt a mandatory feeling for all mothers and fathers of difficult child's?