Hi, my name is Michelle and I am new to this website. I took my 4yr old to a psychologist today and she said ODD. husband and I knew something was up, but having our concerns validated just makes me want to cry. How do you deal with the constant screaming at the top of her lungs without screaming back? We are so frustrated. Have tried everything for disipline, nothing works. I LOVE my daughter, but I really don't like at all. How do y ou keep from going crazy. I guess I just need someone to talk to.....please help.